Because this isn't your run-of-the-mill online course.
It's a coaching program, and couples require double the work on both ends--two sets of values, needs, money beliefs, goals, patterns, fears, expectations, traumas, etc. Married or not, both people need to understand themselves before they can properly show up for the partnership. Two people need to be asking questions in the coaching sessions and emails. While some homework is absolutely better done together, and some can be a division of simple tasks,
much of this program is a personal discovery. This discovery will be done at each person's pace and schedule, requiring their own progress tracker and access to Ruth.
Couples simply need two of everything.Ruth helps couples create unity around money. Interdependence certainly requires and encourages couples to divide and conquer in many things. However,
MANY pieces of your finances should NOT be dumped on one spouse alone, and doing so creates many of the problems. For so many reason, we discourage the "you do it and tell me what you learn" pattern, which is why we prioritize the "couples" offer be a FABULOUS deal!
This is NOT the place to cut corners! xoxoxoThe skills learned in this program, especially in the "Relationships and Money" course, will help you understand better why "double everything" is important, and
you will learn to work more successfully with your spouse in this critical part of life.That said, we also know that married couples frequently have different enthusiasm levels, time availability, or brain space for money stuff.
Sometimes, you just need to do this solo. Most financial coaches, for good reasons, won't work with married people if both partners aren't participating. But Ruth herself says, "If I had to wait for my husband to participate before I could learn or do anything, we would be divorced!" Two heads ARE better than one, but 2 - 1 does NOT = 0. One person can make a huge difference for the team. So we get it! Which is why the "flying solo" option is still a KILLER deal.
For your best success, please ensure you meet the "Are You Ready" criteria with your marriage.